I have been richly blessed. Each
of my trips to Richmond SA I have learned and experienced new things as well as
enjoyed familiar things. This time I feel like I really know the people of
Richmond and the staff of EWF much more than I have ever been able to in the
past. I thought I knew a lot about the culture in Richmond but now after
learning much more I look back and realize that I had just learned the surface.
I had learned what I could see about the culture in the past. Now there are
many people who have explained the culture to me, brought me places where I
could firsthand see and experience the culture, and answered lots of my
questions.
I started by carefully forming my
questions in order not to offend or disrespect anyone. By now I know many of
the staff well enough that if it’s just us I feel comfortable saying, “Why do
they do that,” or, “Why is it like this.” Sometimes I will just look with a
questioning look and they know I am interested in an explanation and they are
great in answering then or later when we are alone. They know I am not being
rude or disrespectful just very interested in learning everything about the culture
of the place and people that I love.
I have definitely spent a lot
more time in town and in the shops than I ever have in the past. This means
that I know some people in the shops; I’m just hoping that when I come back I
will be able to still remember faces and names. Unfortunately for me many
people recognize me, I stand out a bit, but I have a harder time remembering
many faces and names. Just yesterday someone came to say hello when I was
getting out of the vehicle. I knew that it was someone that I have seen many
times but I just couldn’t place where I had seen him. He recognized this and
quickly reminded me that he was the parking guard at Spar, one of the two
grocery stores. After finding out that, no I was not married, he asked me to
marry him but I regretfully declined as I was heading back home in two days. He
said he would see me the next time I came to Richmond and be looking for me.
The other Parking guard at Spar I will probably remember more as I have seen
him more often lately. In fact last week my trips to the store where frequent enough
that when I was there on Friday he greeted me with a grin from ear to ear and
asked how I was doing today. He has been working there for a very long time as
I understand so I will be sure to see him again.
Today as Ntsiki and I were
talking on the veranda at the guest house a woman past by the gate and called
out to me. At this time I still do not know who she is and where I met her. But
I must have had a conversation with her at one time because of the words she
called to me. She said, “Bye, bye Canadian, have a good travel back to Canada
tomorrow.” Yes so more people know me than I can remember sadly.
The people I do know in the
community are some that I met at church or just met when I was in town. I know
people from the police station, fire station, the court house, municipality,
FNB bank, both grocery stores, and some other little shops. Oh and the garages.
I appreciate knowing these people as they are able to assist me in many areas
and help me to feel at home in Richmond. I don’t know if I will be remembered
when I come next in future years but I pray that I will remember some of the
dear people I have met in the past three months.
The staff of EWF have been really
good to me in the past three months. Not only are they my friends but many of
them have been like family to me. I may not know everything about each one of
the staff but in my opinion I know many of them. I know their phone numbers,
where they live, many of their children, and have learned some of their life
stories as well. I can whistle along to ntsiki’s ring tone, I know some of the
favorite foods of the staff, and I know pineapple cooee is Sanele’s favorite
but he doesn’t buy it because he knows that I don’t like pineapple. I know Busi’s
I know how the staff like to cook and eat the food that we have many days
enjoyed together. The sound of their voices, laughs, and walk is familiar to
me. We can talk to each other without saying words and communicate just by a
look. These things and many others is how I know that I know these very dear
friends of mine.
Times change and I know that the
next time I am in Richmond I will find that here to things change. It’s hard to
come to the same place and see differences yet I know that it is an inevitable
part of life and therefore should be expected and managed. I am anticipating the
next time I am in Richmond already though I have not yet left. Even more so I
look forward to seeing the people that I have come to love. I told a friend
yesterday that it comforted me that while I hoped and planned to see her again
on this earth I would always know that one day we would be meeting somewhere
much better. While she said she looks forward to that day she said very firmly
that I would be and better be seeing her before that day. We parted with hugs,
kisses, and laughter that I will remember for a long time.
I pray that tomorrow when I say
goodbye too many more of my friends that we would be able to cry and be sad as we
part but that the day would also be full of laughter and joy as much of our
time together has been. There has been many memories made and things
accomplished in the past three months and I pray that it may be so in the
future as well for the staff of EWF. They will be in my thoughts and prayers
very often.
Laina